krikketgirl: (Bring It)
At this time next week, I will be sitting in an auditorium listening to the annual First Day Back to School Pep Talk for Educators and Hangers-On. The summer that seemed to yawn before me at the end of May has been packed full of adventure and being busy, and now it is slipping away.

Yesterday we went to see Ramona and Beezus--it was, as far as I can recall, the first time in about a decade that I've set foot in a movie theater. I was a little worried about the movie, since I loved Beverly Cleary's books when I was young, and I didn't want them ruined. The movie was an unexpected delight. I thought it stayed very true to the spirit of the books, and even though I sniffled my way through it, it was a happy and sweet movie. I wish there were more like it. If there were, I might venture into theaters more often than once every several years.

Anyway, this week I have multiple chores to accomplish, but I am feeling all full of vim, vigor, and vinegar, much like dear ol' Rosie the Riveter. I can do it!

Which makes me think of the youngest boy: after years of our trying to convince him that dipping his face in the water shall not surely kill him, he has finally taught himself to swim with his face underwater. This is a joy, although it also is delightful to watch him "psych himself up." When he wanted to show off this new skill to me last week, he said, "Okay, don't look. I have to get ready. And if you hear me saying something over and over, don't worry. I'm just encouraging myself."

Naturally, I had to ask him what he was telling himself. "I just keep saying, 'You did it before, and you can do it again," he replied. And, well, that's what the mood is for me this week. I'm not sure how I will cope with school and school and parenting and housework and a billion other things, but I expect I'll find myself repeating, "You did it before, and you can do it again."


Mar. 8th, 2010 07:19 am
krikketgirl: (Amélie)
I think we've reviewed--many times--the fact that I am not a gardener by nature. I'm too impatient, and fickle and--let's face it--find nothing exciting about getting my hands dirty. And though I rather wish I did enjoy it, as it seems such a responsible thing to do, I've made peace with the fact that one person can't do everything and stick to my passionate pursuit of all things involving sitting down and books.

But that doesn't mean that the imminent approach of spring leaves my heart unturned. Spring, while not my favorite season, is one of the top four. Much like fall, it's a turning season, a time of transition and anticipation. Anything could happen, surely, with the scent of spring on the breeze!

And while others pore over seed catalogs that arrive in the mail, or plan their flowerbeds and vegetable rows, I'm thinking about the sermon that my husband gave on Sabbath. In a by-the-way fashion, he mentioned that we are all responsible for building and for planting seeds, and that those things require stepping out on faith. If I put a seed in the ground, I want to run out there every day and see whether it's growing, much the same way that Chris hovers over his beloved sassafrass tree all spring long, nurturing it, tending it, and threatening the neighborhood rabbits.

But seeds take their own time. Some germinate in a week, some take much longer. And although it's not obvious to my eye, once that seed is in the ground, there is change happening. There is action and growth. But it will not be revealed to me until it is the right time.

I am a creature that likes definition and control. I like to know what's happening, why, who's involved, and what my responsibility is. When I put forth effort, I want results--now! I want immediate feedback! And yet, that is not what I am called to do.

Whether it is at home--with my own sons--or at work with others' children, I am only planting seeds. I don't know which will blossom and grow and which will remain dormant for perhaps a lifetime. I don't know which seeds will be a lasting legacy--what will my children, for example, rememenr? Will it be my special recipe for swiss steak? Will it be the family trips? Will it be talking while grocery shopping? Will it be hugs? Reminders? Monologues? The pattern of the fabric on the sofa? The hundreds of books? The weekly trips to church and then to grandma's house?

Will the students at school remember that I smiled a lot? That my voice was high and breathy? That I wore billowing skirts and big earrings? That I found them a book that they fell in love with? That I knew where to find information on frogs? That I was a foe (or a friend) on the "underground railroad" that ran through our school? Will the seeds of care and concern and love of literature that I am planting come to fruition someday?

I don't know, any more than I could have foreseen, last March, that I would be working at the school this year. The seeds I planted over the years brought forth a harvest I could not have expected. And I am trying to remember that, right now, in the thick of my worries about school and work, that I am still responsible for planting, and that a harvest will someday happen. I can't see the growth fully now. I may not see it for years and years. But there is planting, every day that I am alive and move throughout the actions of life. I can't choose what I will harvest--but I step out in faith that God is a faithful gardener, so much more conscientous than I.


krikketgirl: (Default)

June 2015

 12345 6


RSS Atom

Most Popular Tags

Page Summary

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Sep. 24th, 2017 08:22 am
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios